Hand off the work
eating your week.

A vetted human assistant for your business, life admin and ADHD support.

Pick a time on the next screen. No card needed. From $279 a month.

Top 0.1% of applicants acceptedMonth to month

“Her work has taken a huge load off my mind, allowing me to focus on other important tasks.” Christine Panus · OkayRelax client · Trustpilot, June 2024

Two ways to hand it off

Either way you get one dedicated assistant, an account manager who runs the account, and no long-term contract. Month to month.

For your life

Life admin and ADHD support

$279a month

for 20 hours, about 5 a week. Bigger plans add hours.

Your assistant takes the personal admin off your plate, and can work alongside you when focus is hard. No diagnosis needed.

  • Inbox, appointments and bills
  • Travel plans, gifts and research
  • Body doubling and calendar resets

“…Love this service, my ADHD makes it impossible to keep up on all my adulting without it!”

Erin Jones · OkayRelax client · Trustpilot, August 2023

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For your business

Business admin and operations

$349a month

for 20 hours, about 5 a week. Bigger plans add hours.

We match you with someone who has already done your kind of work.

  • Inbox, calendar and client scheduling
  • Bookkeeping and expense reports
  • Customer support and sales follow-up

“It’s like having someone in the office who already knows how you like your tasks done.”

Vonnah Bagner · OkayRelax client · Trustpilot, September 2024

See business plans

Need both? A business plan covers personal work too. Book your free 20-minute call and we’ll set it up.

Four steps from the call to your first handoff

A managed service, not a marketplace. We do the searching.

This week

Book a free 20-minute call

We walk through your work, your priorities and what you want to hand off first.

Once you subscribe

Kick off with your account manager

One call about how you work, how you like things done and what to hand off first.

2 to 3 business days, typical

Meet your match

We pick the assistant whose background and working style fit yours. Not right? Tell your account manager and we rematch.

Then

Hand off the first list

Share access and drop in your first tasks. Daily handoffs, weekly check-ins.

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What you can hand off

For your business: the inbox, the calendar and the CRM. For your life: the dentist, the family trip, the birthday gift. And if you have ADHD: body doubling and calendar resets when focus is hard.

ADHD support

Included in both personal plans, from $279 a month. Video or audio, camera on or off. No diagnosis needed.

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Not sure where to start?

Book a free 20-minute call and we’ll work out what to hand off first.

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We accept fewer than 1 in 1,000 applicants.

Five steps, ending in a trial assignment we pay them to do. Only then do we match one with you.

A grid of 1,000 dots with one highlighted: fewer than 1 in 1,000 applicants are accepted
Every dot is an applicant. One gets through.
  1. ApplicationWe screen for experience, domain and tools first.
  2. Skills assessmentsWe test their writing, typing and tool skills live.
  3. Team interviewsSeveral people on our team interview them, on separate calls.
  4. References, verificationWe call their past clients and run ID and criminal background checks.
  5. Trial assignmentWe pay them to do a real, scoped assignment. Only work that clears our bar gets them matched with a client.

Background-checked. Serving small businesses since 2015. Rated 4.3 on Trustpilot (October 2026).

How OkayRelax compares

Side by side with the three alternatives buyers actually consider.

Swipe the table to see all four.

CompareOkayRelaxMarketplace VAFiverr, UpworkSpecialist agencyOne specialist hireDirect hireFull-time EA
Match speed2 to 3 business days, typicalYou search and screenWeeksWeeks to months of hiring
Account managerYes, dedicatedNoSometimesYou are the manager
When your assistant is outAnother assistant coversYou are stuckLimitedThe work waits
Multi-skill scopeYes, across servicesSwitch freelancersSingle specialtyOne person, one skill
HR overheadNoneNoneSomePayroll, benefits, HR
Vetting5 steps, ending in a trial assignmentVariableSpecialty experienceYou vet
Month to monthYesPer taskContract termsSalary plus severance
PricingFrom $279 a monthPer taskMonthly retainerAbout $109,000 a year with benefits and payroll taxes

Direct hire cost: median pay for executive assistants, $76,590 (U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, May 2025), plus benefits and payroll taxes at the private-industry rate (BLS, June 2026).

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What people ask us first

Something else on your mind? Ask on your free 20-minute call

I’ve been burned by VAs before.

You get a dedicated assistant, matched deliberately. Your account manager runs the account. Nothing sits without an owner.

“…I was having trouble with another VA service that just turned down everything I gave them or gave an excuse why they couldn’t do it. OkayRelax stepped up took my tasks and did them. It was a dream come true.”

Jason · OkayRelax client · Virtual Assistant Assistant, February 2022
My work is too sensitive or specialized.

Every assistant is background-checked, identity-verified, and working under strict confidentiality. We match for domain.

I don’t have time to train someone.

You shouldn’t need to. Your assistant is a seasoned professional who’s done this work before. Your account manager handles the ramp.

Why not hire directly?

A full-time executive assistant costs about $109,000 a year once benefits and payroll taxes are added (U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics figures), plus weeks of hiring and HR on you. With us you start in days, with a dedicated assistant, and an account manager runs the account.

What if I don’t click with them?

Tell your account manager. We rematch. No drama.

Are they overseas?

Our team is global. Every assistant is assessed for professional-grade English, written and spoken. Geography isn’t a proxy for quality. Selection is.

Need a specialist too?

Already on a plan? Add a senior specialist when one role needs deeper skills. Specialists are matched in 2 to 3 business days.

Specialist roles, by the monthMarketing, copy, SEO, email, books, sales, creative, support
  • Marketing StrategistSenior strategy for founders without a CMO. Audits, plans, channel mix.
  • Social Media Content CreatorPosts, captions, scheduling, light editing. The platforms you actually use.
  • CopywriterSales pages, emails, landing pages, ad copy. In your voice, not a template.
  • SEO SpecialistOn-page audits, keyword strategy, content briefs, page-by-page optimization.
  • Email Marketing SpecialistNurture sequences, broadcasts, list segmentation, deliverability cleanup.
  • BookkeeperMonthly reconciliation, AP and AR, QuickBooks or Xero, books clean for tax.
  • Sales Development RepOutbound prospecting, LinkedIn outreach, qualified meetings on your calendar.
  • Creative ProductionOngoing creative production. Social graphics, presentations, light brand work.
  • Customer SupportEmail, chat, and helpdesk coverage during your business hours. Response in your voice.
End-to-end programsMarketing automation, website build
  • Marketing automationLifecycle, lead routing, segmentation. Built and shipped. Keep us on to run it, or take ownership at handoff.
  • Website buildCustom WordPress, pre-filled with copy researched for your industry. Take ownership at launch, or keep us on for hosting, maintenance, and dev hours.
Scoped projectsWebsite, marketing automation, AI agent
  • Website buildCustom WordPress, designed and built. Fixed fee, shipped in 4 to 6 weeks, you own it at handoff.
  • Marketing automation buildCRM pipelines, sequences, integrations. Shipped, documented, handed off.
  • AI agent buildAgent design, knowledge curation, tool integration. Run by a human team that keeps it sharp.

Hand it off today.

Book a free 20-minute call. We’ll tell you which plan fits, and you decide from there. Nothing starts until you say so.

“…OkayRelax has been the best experience so far. Skilled assistants that can handle a variety of tasks, good communication, and very reasonably priced.”

Isaac Odim · OkayRelax client · Virtual Assistant Assistant, July 2018

Pick a time on the next screen. Plans from $279 a month.