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URL: https://okayrelax.com/
Published: 2026-05-26
Modified: 2026-10-22

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For the chronically overcommitted

# Match with a vetted human assistant. Hand off the work eating your week.

Real humans handling inbox, scheduling, bookkeeping, marketing, and follow-ups. Whatever is keeping you off your real job. Free 30-minute call, tailored proposal in 48 hours, or an honest “not a fit” email.

What to expect

On the call

What to hand off first

We learn your business and where the work is piling up.

After the call

A plan that fits you

Simple plans on the spot. Custom builds in 48 hours.

Before you decide

An honest answer on fit

If we're not the right fit, we'll say so.

No sales script. No manufactured urgency. Just a conversation about your business.

Leave this field emptyFirst name *Last name *Work email *Work phone number *What's eating most of your time? *— Select —Inbox, calendar & schedulingBookkeeping & financesOperations & vendor coordinationSales outreach & pipelineCustomer support & client follow-upMarketing, content & socialHonestly, all of itGet my plan

Top 0.1% accepted·Background-checked·No credit card required

Confirmation email within 1 hour

Need life-admin help, not a business? [See personal plans →](/services/personal/)

1 in 1,000

applicants make our team

100%

identity-verified and criminal-background-checked

Every plan

has a dedicated account manager

Up to 80%

cost savings vs. in-house hire

entry plan vs. fully-loaded full-time EA

11+ yrs

serving small businesses

since 2015

Real humans

fluent in today's AI tools

no chat-bot middleware

Top 0.1%

of applicants accepted

onto our team

Dedicated assistant from day one

Match in 2 to 3 business days, typical

100% identity-verified, background-checked team

How it works

## From discovery to matched, in days.

A managed service, not a marketplace. Six steps; the longest ones being the calls.

01

### Share what’s on your plate.

Book a 30 minute discovery call. We walk through your work, your priorities, and what you want to hand off first. This helps us find the right plan for you.

02

### Kick off with your account manager.

Once you’re subscribed, your dedicated account manager gets on a call with just you. This is where we go deeper: your personality, your workflows, how you think, how you communicate, and exactly how you like work done. Everything we need to find the right fit.

03

### Matched.

Based on your kickoff, we select the professional whose background, working style, and experience align with yours. If something feels off, we rematch. No drama.

04

### Get introduced.

Your assistant introduces themselves and you take it from there. Schedule a call, hop on a Zoom, or just start working. There’s no forced process, just a real introduction on your terms.

05

### Get integrated.

Share access, fill out your notes, drop in your first tasks. Your assistant gets to work. Your account manager stays close.

06

### Find your rhythm.

Daily handoffs. Weekly check-ins. Your account manager keeps things moving so nothing falls through the cracks.

[See how it fits](/how-it-works/)

What they handle

## Real work. Real humans. Matched to your business.

### Inbox and calendar.

Email triage, meeting scheduling, prep docs. The work that eats your morning, handed off.

### Travel and coordination.

Flights, hotels, restaurants, full prep packets. Hand it off, get on the plane.

### Research and reporting.

Vendor scans, expense reports, market notes, pre-meeting briefs. Done before you ask twice.

### Customer and client ops.

Scheduling, follow-ups, intake, light CRM work for client-facing teams. Nothing falls through the cracks.

### Sales and CRM.

Pipeline hygiene, outreach lists, follow-up cadences, basic automation. Your CRM stops rotting.

[See specialists →](/services/specialists/)

### Operations and project tracking.

Asana, ClickUp, Notion, vendor coordination, process docs. The connective tissue nobody else owns.

### Light marketing and social.

Scheduled posts, draft prep, light editing, content calendars. Week-to-week marketing work that doesn’t need a strategist.

[See specialists →](/services/specialists/)

### Personal coordination.

Schedule management, gift research, vendor coordination, life admin. For when ‘your week’ includes more than work.

Standout

### [Family Stories.](/services/personal/family-stories/)

Recurring calls with parents or grandparents, written narrative notes. A service no other VA company offers. Included on every personal plan.

[Learn more →](/services/personal/family-stories/)

Standout

### [ADHD Support.](/services/personal/adhd-support/)

Body doubling, admin batches, calendar resets. Focused sessions with the same dedicated assistant. Included on every personal plan.

[Learn more →](/services/personal/adhd-support/)

[See business services →](/services/business/)

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[See specialist roles →](/services/specialists/)

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[Specialized work →](/build-me-a-team/)

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[See personal services →](/services/personal/)

Ready to hand it off? [Jump to plans →](#plans)

How we compare

## Not a marketplace. Not a body shop. Different by design.

Side by side with the three alternatives buyers actually consider.

Recommended
OkayRelax

Marketplace VA
Fiverr, Upwork

Single-skill agency
One specialist hire

Direct hire
Full-time EA

Match speed

✓
Days, not weeks

You search and screen

2 to 4 weeks

60 to 120 days

Account manager

✓
Yes, dedicated

No

Sometimes

You are the manager

Coverage when assistant is out

✓
We can route the task to another available assistant

You are stuck

Limited

Wait for return

Multi-skill scope

✓
Yes, scope across services

Switch freelancers

Single specialty

One person, one skill

HR overhead

✓
Zero

Zero

Some

Full HR plus benefits

Quality bar

✓
Top 0.1% accepted

Variable

Specialty experience

You vet

Month to month

✓
Yes

Per-task

Contract terms

Salary plus severance

Pricing

✓
From $279/mo

Per task

$1,500 to $3,000/mo

$80k to $150k/yr loaded

Ready when you are. [Book a 30-minute Discovery call →](/book-call/)

Plans

## Two ways to hand it off.

Personal

### From $279/mo.

Admin and life-scheduling coverage for busy operators. Your dedicated assistant, your account manager, work that gets done.

[See personal plans](/pricing/personal/)

Business

### From $349/mo.

20+ hours of capacity for teams and workflows. Your dedicated assistant, your account manager, capacity that scales with you.

[See business plans](/pricing/business/)

Holiday gifts

## Give someone a dedicated assistant.
For anyone buried in life admin or running a business. For someone with ADHD, a real person on the call while they do the thing. Pick who it's for, then the plan, then how long.

[How gifting works](https://okayrelax.com/gifts/)

Gift finder

- Who it's for
- Their plan
- How longStep 1 of 3Who's the gift for?One-time payment, delivered by email on the date you choose. You're never charged again.

Someone buried in life adminThe inbox, appointments, bills and travel plans, handled online by the same assistant every week.Gifts from $279 for one monthBody doublingSomeone with ADHDA real person on the call while they do the thing: body doubling, admin batches, calendar resets and help with decisions.Gifts from $279 for one monthSomeone running a businessInbox, customer support, sales and content, so they can get back to the work only they can do.Gifts from $349 for one monthNot sure what fits? Give a gift card from $100. They can put it toward any plan, personal or business. [Choose an amount](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-card/)

ContinuePick who it's for to continue.[Continue to their plan](#gift-1-life)[Continue to their plan](#gift-1-adhd)[Continue to their plan](#gift-1-business)Rated ★ 4.3 on Trustpilot (October 2026). Not the right match? Their account manager arranges a rematch.Step 2 of 3Pick their planNot sure? Start with Relaxed. They can move up when they start.

Relaxed20 hours a month, about 5 a week$279 a monthCalendar, inbox, calls and online adminThe same dedicated assistant every weekSerene30 hours a month, about 7 a week$449 a monthCalendar, inbox, calls and online adminRoom for two: add one household member

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Relaxed plan, 20 hours a month

- One month $279 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)
- Three months $837 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)
- Six months $1,674 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)
- A full year $3,348 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Serene plan, 30 hours a month

- One month $449 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)
- Three months $1,347 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)
- Six months $2,694 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)
- A full year $5,388 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)Step 2 of 3Pick their planNot sure? Start with Relaxed. Both plans include ADHD Support, and they can move up when they start.

Relaxed20 hours a month, about 5 a week$279 a monthADHD Support: body doubling, admin batches, calendar resets, decision helpThe same dedicated assistant every weekSerene30 hours a month, about 7 a week$449 a monthADHD Support, with more hours for sessionsRoom for two: add one household memberThe same dedicated assistant every week

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Relaxed plan, 20 hours a month

- One month $279 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)
- Three months $837 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)
- Six months $1,674 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)
- A full year $3,348 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Relaxed%20%28Personal%29)

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Serene plan, 30 hours a month

- One month $449 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)
- Three months $1,347 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)
- Six months $2,694 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)
- A full year $5,388 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Serene%20%28Personal%29)Step 2 of 3Pick their planNot sure? Deep Calm suits a solo founder. They can move up when they start.

Deep Calm20 hours a month, about 5 a week$349 a monthInbox, calendar and schedulingResearch, follow-ups and adminUp to 2 team members can delegatePeace of Mind30 hours a month, about 7 a week$499 a monthEverything in Deep CalmProactive task managementUp to 3 team members can delegateZen Delegation40 hours a month, about 9 a week$649 a monthEverything in Peace of MindCustomer outreach and CRM managementUp to 4 team members can delegate

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Deep Calm plan, 20 hours a month

- One month $349 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Deep%20Calm%20%28Business%29)
- Three months $1,047 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Deep%20Calm%20%28Business%29)
- Six months $2,094 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Deep%20Calm%20%28Business%29)
- A full year $4,188 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Deep%20Calm%20%28Business%29)

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Peace of Mind plan, 30 hours a month

- One month $499 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Peace%20of%20Mind%20%28Business%29)
- Three months $1,497 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Peace%20of%20Mind%20%28Business%29)
- Six months $2,994 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Peace%20of%20Mind%20%28Business%29)
- A full year $5,988 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Peace%20of%20Mind%20%28Business%29)

### Step 3 of 3How long should it last?Zen Delegation plan, 40 hours a month

- One month $649 Clears the backlog: the inbox, the forms, the calls waiting on them. [Give one month](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-1-month/?attribute_plan=Zen%20Delegation%20%28Business%29)
- Three months $1,947 A full season with the busywork handled. [Give three months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-3-months/?attribute_plan=Zen%20Delegation%20%28Business%29)
- Six months $3,894 Half a year of bookings, bills and inbox handled. [Give six months](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-6-months/?attribute_plan=Zen%20Delegation%20%28Business%29)
- A full year $7,788 Twelve months with a dedicated assistant on their side. [Give a full year](https://okayrelax.com/product/gift-12-months/?attribute_plan=Zen%20Delegation%20%28Business%29)A gift is a one-time payment, emailed on the day you choose. They can still switch plans when they start.

Once admin is handled

## Need more than admin support? Plug in a specialist.

Already on a plan? Add a senior specialist when one role needs deeper firepower. Two end-to-end programs cover marketing and websites - build it and own it, or keep us on. Nine specialist roles plug into your team by the month.

Marketing and website programs cover both modes - a scoped build you own, or an ongoing partnership where your account team runs it. Specialist roles are a single senior pro plugged into your team.

Specialists matched in 2 to 3 business days. Book a call to start.

A · Marketing and websites

### End-to-end programs. Build it and own it, or keep us on.

Marketing · By consultation

### Marketing automation

Lifecycle, lead routing, segmentation. Built and shipped. Keep us on to run it, or take ownership at handoff.

- Custom workflow and automation builds

- Lead routing, segmentation, lifecycle email

- Documented, with credentials transferred at handoff

- Or keep your account manager on to run it

[See the service →](/services/marketing-automation/)

Websites · By consultation

### Website build

Custom WordPress, pre-filled with copy researched for your industry. Take ownership at launch, or keep us on for hosting, maintenance, and dev hours.

- Custom design and WordPress development

- 10+ pages pre-filled with copy

- AI search, performance, and accessibility baseline

- Or keep us on for ongoing care

[See the service →](/services/website-build/)

B · Specialist roles

### Plug a senior specialist into your team, by the month.

When you need someone who’s done this work before, not someone learning on your time. All matched by your account manager. All from the top 0.1% accepted onto our team.

#### Marketing Strategist

Senior strategy for founders without a CMO. Audits, plans, channel mix.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Social Media Content Creator

Posts, captions, scheduling, light editing. The platforms you actually use.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Copywriter

Sales pages, emails, landing pages, ad copy. In your voice, not a template.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### SEO Specialist

On-page audits, keyword strategy, content briefs, page-by-page optimization.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Email Marketing Specialist

Nurture sequences, broadcasts, list segmentation, deliverability cleanup.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Bookkeeper

Monthly reconciliation, AP and AR, QuickBooks or Xero, books clean for tax.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Sales Development Rep

Outbound prospecting, LinkedIn outreach, qualified meetings on your calendar.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Creative Production

Ongoing creative production. Social graphics, presentations, light brand work.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

#### Customer Support

Email, chat, and helpdesk coverage during your business hours. Response in your voice.

[Talk to us →](/build-me-a-team/)

Lighter plans

Don’t need a full fractional? Lighter scopes are available. Book a call and we’ll scope a smaller assignment.

[Ask about a smaller plan →](/build-me-a-team/)

C · Scoped project work

### Need it shipped, not run. Scoped, quoted, handed off.

Project · Flat fee

### Website build

Custom WordPress, designed and built. Fixed fee, shipped in 4 to 6 weeks, you own it at handoff.

[See the service →](/services/website-build/)

Project · Flat fee

### Marketing automation build

CRM pipelines, sequences, integrations. Shipped, documented, handed off.

[See the service →](/services/marketing-automation/)

Project · Quoted by scope

### AI agent build

Agent design, knowledge curation, tool integration. Run by a human team that keeps it sharp.

[See the service →](/services/build-an-ai-agent/)

How we select

## We accept fewer than 1 in 1,000 applicants.

Most do not clear the first assessment. The ones who do, you work with.

### 01

Application

Years of experience. Domain. Tools. Filtered up front.

### 02

Skills assessments

Live writing, typing, tool-proficiency tests.

### 03

Multi-stage interviews

Conversations with multiple team members across separate calls.

### 04

References, verification

Prior client references contacted directly. ID and criminal background check.

### 05

Trial assignment

A real, paid, scoped trial assignment. They get matched with a client only after the work clears our bar.

Trusted by founders and operators

“

Her work has taken a huge load off my mind, allowing me to focus on other important tasks. The peace of mind I have gained from her support is invaluable.

C

Christine Panus

Email management client · Trustpilot, June 2024

It’s like having someone in the office who already knows how you like your tasks done.

Vonnah Bagner

…my ADHD makes it impossible to keep up on all my adulting without it!

Erin Jones

Operating

### Since 2015

Helping busy operators worldwide

Selected

### Top 0.1%

Of applicants accepted onto our team

Vetted

### 100%

Identity-verified, background-checked team

Model

### Managed

An account manager runs your account

Questions

## Still circling?

I’ve been burned by VAs before.
You get a dedicated assistant, matched deliberately. Your account manager runs the account. Nothing sits without an owner.

My work is too sensitive or specialized.
Every assistant is background-checked, identity-verified, and working under strict confidentiality. We match for domain.

I don’t have time to train someone.
You shouldn’t need to. Your assistant is a seasoned professional who’s done this work before. Your account manager handles the ramp.

Why not hire directly?
$80k to $150k fully loaded + 60 to 120 days to hire + HR on you. Us: start in days, dedicated assistant, account manager runs the account.

What if I don’t click with them?
Tell your account manager. We rematch. No drama.

Are they overseas?
Our team is global. Every assistant is assessed for professional-grade English, written and spoken. Geography isn’t a proxy for quality. Selection is.

## Hand it off today.

Top 0.1% accepted. Matched within days. An account manager runs your account.

[See plans](/pricing/)

[Book a 30-minute Discovery call](/book-call/)

**Still circling?** Read why founders and operators keep us on retainer for years.

[About OkayRelax →](/about/)
